One of the most beloved poets of our time is Maya Angelou; in fact she was the poet laureate of President Clinton’s Administration. She often tells the story of the basis of her philosophy of life, the generative source of her own creations – it was her grandmother. Maya grew up in ruralArkansasand her grandmother taught her so much about life and love, about endurance and patience, but mostly about living in gratitude without complaints.
Now Maya’s grandmother operated a General Store and would often call for Maya when one particular person made a purchase. After her grandmother asked: How are you? – The customer would whine and complain about the weather, the economic situation, his wife, his kids or one of a dozen other things. Always he came in and complained. Her grandmother always turned to make sure that Maya was listening and paying attention.
One day, after Maya had listened yet again to the complaints and after the customer was out of earshot, Maya’s grandmother spoke these words: Sister, there are people who went to sleep last night, poor and rich and white and black, but they will never wake again. And those dead folks would give anything at all for just five minutes of this weather, or ten minutes of difficult plowing. So you watch yourself about complaining. What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, then change the way you think about it!
Well Maya grew up and rose from the poverty of ruralArkansas. She refused to be defined by the barriers of a segregationist South; she embraced her color and her history; she survived sexual abuse and the sexism of her culture; she was at the forefront of the civil rights movement and she’s stood on the side of those oppressed – women, children and the poor for seventy years; she has been nominated for a Pulitzer prize and has received 30 honorary degrees! Through it all she refuses to complain and she continues to inspire others to move beyond their perceived limits – to live, and to love, and to rise.
Out of the huts of history’s shame, I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain, I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear, I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear, I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave. I rise, I rise, I rise.
The optimism of Maya Angelou’s poetry is inspiring to me. Each time I read her writings I am invited to change the things that I can change; to adjust my attitude when faced with the unchangeable; and to rise, always to rise. Maya’s poetry, like the words of Jesus remind me that every moment and every second and every breath I take is a gift from God and that there are hurting people in the world, and dying people and lonely people who would give anything for my little complaints. I am reminded to stop complaining and start living – to rise – and live. That was the message of Jesus throughout the gospels. He would so often tell people rise and sin no more, or stand up and walk, or be on your way, your faith has saved you. Jesus was always encouraging people to change what they could change, to adjust their attitudes in the face of the unchangeable, and most of all, to start living, to rise!
Perhaps this month as we celebrate Thanksgiving Day this should be a part of our gratitude – a commitment to stop our complaining and start living. Gratitude is an attitude and attitudes sometimes need to be adjusted. This year on Thanksgiving Day I will take stock of my complaints. I will change what can be changed. I will adjust my attitude in the face of what I can not change. I will be grateful for this moment – and like Maya Angelou – I will rise. I will rise up and live.

